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Why are some successful at weight loss while others fail to lose weight? Print E-mail
dsc00131What makes some individuals successful when taking on a challenge such as losing weight while others fail? As a Houston Personal Trainer, I spend a lot of time trying to learn the psyche of individuals who have self sabotaging behaviors that prevent them from achieving their Houston workout goals. In fact I just took a Personal Training recertification class about that very thing. In a nutshell, I learned that the "rewards" for over eating, even though the rewards may be temporary, provide much satisfaction and the rewards outweigh the "punishment" of eventually being overweight or fat. In order to help these men and women personal training workout clients succeed at weight loss and slimming, I have to communicate a great deal about behaviors that do not contribute to success. This applies to so many things in life ...as a point of discussion, I know a handsome guy, extreemly intelligent, who has a good education, the finances to go to college and was accepted at some excellent schools. However, the "rewards" of financial independence after school, did not outweigh the "rewards" of immediate gratification from drug use. This drug addiction (which is similar to a food addiction) turned into such a monster that he ended up in the court systems, and unfortunately even that has not deterred him. It is hard to imagine that a person can self destruct like that but it happens all the time.
 One of my Houston Personal Training clients complains a lot that her parents and friends, but mainly her husband eat food she cannot have in front of her. She felt that it was not considerate. It may not be considerate, I explained to her..but the fact is,  that her family does NOT have the difficulties of overweight to deal with as THEIR challenge in life..but her good looking husband DOES have the challenge of beautiful women flirting with him all day long. He has to know how to say no to them just like she has to learn how to say no to the excessive food intake. Each person has a different challenge..and giving in to immediate gratification or blaming others is never the answer. This beautiful girl  has gained fourty pounds in two years since marriage so her eating is way more than her body requires. When A Houston in home personal training client takes ownership of her choices regarding food, she will then start to be more successful. Those Houston Personal Training clients who blame others for their lack of success are always going to fail.

Last Updated ( Saturday, 12 January 2008 )